Every once in awhile we do something fun like cook together or go out together but we usually just hang out at each other’s apartments.I definitely prefer it to hooking up because it brings more of a human element back to sex. – Kara*I prefer dating to hook-ups, myself having been in two serious relationships during college, one of which is still going post-graduation. You see all types of relationships, and it just depends on what works for the individual.It satisfied both of our needs without the pressure of a relationship.But soon, he got abusive, saying he wanted nothing to do with me sober and then asking to have drunken sex. I think that friends-with-benefits can work, but you have to treat each other like friends.– Sarah*Hooking up does seem fun, but I prefer the consistency and dependability of always having someone who will be there at the end of the day.
–Stacie*I love having a cheerleader, someone always rooting for me, being there for me through a long and stressful week, and I love being that for someone in return.
– Matt*I’m happy being single, but I also like the idea that there’s someone out there who likes you, thinks about you all the time, and wants to be with you.